Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Yeah i finally finish my Gems tutorial wth right haa.. Thanks shermaine for reference lol.. Thanks debbie for editing my grammer mistake!! i owe u lol..
>Yesterday i can't slept thank to lin zhenliang for waking me up in the middle of my sleep lol..
After i woke up i think a lots of things man!!
I hope that next time when i woke up i can see my future wife smiling at me and say good morning. And cook breakfast for me haa..
today attend STD talk lol.. a bit boring but i learnt new words. During EMC i also learnt new words lol..
Yesterday i played pool with XB.. idiot dick mouth go and move my cue with i super du lan uh ass hole. lucky she didnt call me today if not i sure F her up side down..
Nothing much to post lol.. so i decided to post my gems q and ans in my blog..
After u see please do not laugh..
Qn 1. What do people look for physically and emotionally in love relationships.
Normally, guys look for girls with nice figures, good postures, acceptable looks that are pleasant which would not bore them to death and quite important they must have a lot of trust in their relationship.
For girls, they want to find a nice figure with six or eight pecs guys and acceptable looks, highly educated who earns a lot of money. They also need to be able protect them such as by giving them security, mutual trust, companionship and must be rich.
First looks are important to our Girl/Boy friend because there will never be another chance of first impression. Within the first three seconds, we can evaluate a person by its appearance or even by a glance.
As I am still single, I am looking for a girl who can understand me well, willing to share my happiness and woes together. Vice versa, I am also willing to share her woes and happiness as well. She also must be willing to give me mutual trust and she must not have a unacceptable reason to get into a relationship with me such as due to puppy love or loneliness. As a guy I also hope that my girlfriend has an acceptable looks that are pleasing to the eye and has a pleasant disposition. She need not be as pretty like a catalog model because as long as she has a nice personality and a good character, I will put my heart and soul into the relationship.
Qn 2. Is physical appearance important to you? Why or why not?
As long as my partner has an acceptable look, I am not picky about physical appearance. I do not need my girlfriend to have Paris Hilton’s figure although she has been termed among masses to be “the sexiest girl alive” and is almost every guy’s fantasy.
However, I also do not wish to be in a relationship with a girl who does not have a presentable look. Though I believe that looks are not everything, I feel that my girlfriend has to be presentable. She need not have to wear the latest trend or have to be dressed in designer wear, but she needs to be well groomed. For example, she has to wear clothes that fit her and are not too revealing.
Back to the question, I feel that physical appearance is important to a certain extent. I feel that when I see a girl for the first time, I would first be attracted to her looks and how she carries herself. I am sure this is the same for every guy. It is her looks that actually captivate me and make me want to get to know her better. It is important to me how a girl carries herself. I, for one, do not like to be seen with a girl would cannot carry herself properly. For example, she curses and swears very loudly in public, wears revealing clothes and has other habits that are socially unacceptable like burping loudly. I feel that when a girl does not carry herself appropriately, she does not have respect for herself. And respect in a relationship is vital to sustain it.
Qn 3. Does the science of attraction make sense to you?
Though it has been proven that the Science of Attraction actually has an element of truth, I feel that there also have been some cases that the Science of Attraction does not apply in. In class last week, a video was screened about a girl who wanted her children to be the best “quality” and she chose her partner based on the traits of him. That is to say, she would choose a man who is very intelligent and smart so that her kids will be intelligent and smart too.
I disagree to a certain extent that Science of Attraction makes total sense to me because I have come across cases where a doctor has a son who is mentally challenged and policemen who have children that commit crimes.
Love as we know it, however, remains an intangible feeling. No definitive method exists to calculate or predict to whom we will be attracted. Therefore, the Science of Attraction does not apply to every relationship.
In my opinion, I believe that my girlfriend need not have the best genes to get into a relationship with me. I feel that my children need not be the best students in class, but they must have a good character so that they will grow up to be useful people in society. Everyone has good and bad points and I feel that a person may be as smart as a professor but if he/she does not have a good character, then he/she would not have good relations with other people. I think character is more important then education or wealth because in this world, there are many rags-to-riches stories. As long you are a good person, everyone would accept you and would be your friend.
In conclusion, I feel that emotions and the physical touch in a relationship carries a heavier percentage and important role.
Tag reply,
Lol too all my classmate yay lah.. i will listen to Wong Wan yu de word which is 忍一時， 風平浪靜。 退一步，海闊天空.
Han peiling Shut your ass up.
Tian Cai blogged at 7:42 AM
